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9 Spiritual Meanings When You Dream About Getting Raped

9 Spiritual Meanings When You Dream About Getting Raped

A dream of rape can be a disturbing experience, especially if you have never experienced such an event in real life. And it doesn’t mean such a dream is destined to happen to you. There are many reasons why people dream about rape, and they don’t always need to be taken literally.

However, some dreams about sexual harassment can mean something more significant than just having a nightmare—they may indicate something significant happening in the dreamer’s everyday life that requires attention. In this blog, we’ll discuss some common interpretations of this disturbing dream.

9 Spiritual Meanings When You Dream About Getting Raped


What is Dream?

Dreams can be a very personal experience. Sigmund Freud, father of psychoanalysis theory and author of “The Interpretation of Dreams,” believed that dreams are “the royal road to the unconscious”.

Freud believed that dreams are the gateway to the unconscious mind—an expression of our deepest thoughts, feelings, behavior, and desires; in other words, he thought that dreams could be used to understand ourselves better. In his theory of psychoanalysis, he believed that dreams were a way for people to work through their repressed desires and thoughts.

What Does It Mean When You Dream About Getting Raped?

1. You Fear Losing Power Or Control

Getting raped in a dream can be a powerful message from your subconscious mind that you need to regain control of your life. Whether it’s a fear of being controlled by others or simply not having enough autonomy in your own life.

This can stem from past experiences where someone has taken advantage of you or something similar, leaving you with feelings of powerlessness. This may also be an issue if someone in your waking life does not respect boundaries and one day decides to take what isn’t theirs to take—whether physical or emotional territory.

This dream can also indicate that your individuality is being taken away. You may feel like you’re being forced to do things that go against your own values and beliefs. So the dream also tells you it’s time to stand up for yourself—to speak up when people try to push you around, to stop letting others walk all over you, and to start taking care of yourself first.

You Fear Losing Power Or Control


2. You’re Close To Trouble

It could be a warning that something terrible is on its way or you are unsafe in some way. Perhaps your job is in danger, or your relationship with someone else might end up causing trouble for you. The key to interpreting dreams about rape is whether or not you feel safe and secure in the dream—if you feel threatened at all, then there’s likely some trouble brewing in real life too.

This could be someone trying to take advantage of your kindness, generosity,  or lack of boundaries and self-care. Your subconscious may be trying to warn you. Your dream might also be a warning that the danger is real and imminent.

3. You May Feel Being Used

Dreams about rape can show that you feel attacked in real life. If you have this dream and it leaves a bad feeling with you, then it could be that you feel like someone is using you. You may feel like someone is using your body for their own pleasure or benefit.

It could also mean they are using your money, power, influence, or other resources to get what they want.

This also indicates that you feel like someone else has violated your trust and rights, so your subconscious is trying to show you how powerless you feel in these circumstances by making this scenario play out again in your dreams.

4. You Are Keeping A Part Of Yourself

Dreaming of people raping you reflects that there is a part of yourself that has not been birthed yet or hidden from others. This part of you may feel suppressed, denied, or ignored by others or yourself. You may be afraid that letting this part of yourself go will hurt your loved ones or cause problems and misunderstandings in your relationships.

The dream could be telling you to pay attention to the emotions coming up for you around this issue so that you can bring them into your awareness and integrate them into your perspective in life.

You Are Keeping A Part Of Yourself


5. You Are Feeling Vulnerable

If you dream about being a rape victim, you feel vulnerable in some aspects of your life: work, health, relationships with family, boss, boyfriend, acquaintance, etc. You may also worry about being taken by someone because of your vulnerability. In this case, your dream is telling you to beware!

If the aggressor committing rape is someone you know, they may be trying to get something from you, like money or power. If they aren’t someone you know, an unknown person, or a complete stranger, and you don’t have any reason to believe they’d ever try to hurt or use you in any way, then it could be that the person represents a part of yourself that wishes for more power and control of the situation.

6. You Are Guilty Of Something

You feel guilty about something, like a secret or an act committed in real life, that you want to hide from others (or even yourself as the only witness), and this dream could be your subconscious telling you that you need to deal with what happened and move on. In this case, the rape represents the guilt itself—the violation and shame that comes from being exposed as someone who has done something wrong.

7. You Are Feeling Alone

Dreaming about getting raped can signify a feeling of being alone or helpless. You may feel like you have no one to turn to or you’re not valued by anyone.

In order to interpret this dream correctly, try thinking of times when you felt isolated or abandoned by people close to you and lost self-esteem.

This dream may also be a warning from your subconscious mind to take care of yourself. You may be neglecting yourself, and this dream is telling you that it is time to take better care of yourself by eating healthy and exercising more often.

You Are Feeling Alone


8. You Are Having A Nervous Breakdown

You dream of sexual assault because your subconscious is working through some issues that you have not been able to resolve. This is a sign that something in your life right now is making you feel fearful or angry, and since you cannot express those feelings in real life, they are coming out in your dreams.

9. You fear sexual intimacy.

Dreams about being raped symbolize the female person’s fears of sexual intimacy. Women who dream of being raped may feel that they are not ready for a sexual relationship or do not want to engage in any sexual activity. Rape dreams mean the fear of being alone and unprotected, so if you are in a relationship, you may be worried about losing your partner.

Dreaming about getting raped is a common dream for men, too. It’s also often a reflection of the dreamer’s fears and insecurities, so it can be helpful to take a look at what you’re afraid of and what makes you uncomfortable.

Recurring Dreams

Recurring dreams about getting raped symbolize control and power for women and sadistic sexual desires for men or pride in their dominant masculinity. If this dream continues and persists over time, these feelings may be more than just an isolated incident—they could be indicative of larger issues within your waking world that need attention and resolution.

The dream may have nothing to do with what’s happening in your life right now but instead, represent some other issue in your mind or body (like anxiety). For example, if there has been little sexual activity lately between two partners who used to get it on regularly, one partner could dream about being raped by the other as an expression of frustration or disappointment over this change in their relationship dynamic (even though neither partner wants anything like that).

Or maybe someone who has been feeling really stressed out at his/her workplace suddenly begins frequently dreaming about being assaulted—these dreams might then become more frequent because of all their stress building up until, finally, enough tension builds up for them to snap completely!


Rape in dreams doesn’t mean you’re destined to be a victim of rape in real life or will encounter a rapist. If you have this kind of dream, it’s important to talk to someone or a therapist you trust about what it means to give you wisdom and a lesson.

Alternatively: dreams about rape may symbolize something else entirely unrelated—such as feeling less desirable than others around us; feeling cornered by others’ expectations; having our own desires taken away from us, or being haunted by past traumas—that reflect feelings we weren’t aware we had until now!

What Does It Mean When You Dream About Getting Raped?



Wednesday 21st of June 2023

Please help I think I’m loosing my mind my son was murdered and I can’t move on got no family are friends they all left me


Tuesday 14th of November 2023

@Debbie, I wish you the best, I'm sorry for your loss.